Ashley Mathers Fontaine, 30, was born in Oxford, Mississippi. She was known as an all-American beauty who got what she wanted, but her life wasn't always as easy as it looked from the outside.
Her mother, Patty Mathers, entered Ashley in her first beauty pageant when she was six years old. By the time Ashley had won the Yoknapatawpha County Junior Miss at age 16, she had nearly 20 first-place trophies. In addition to beauty and natural poise, young Ashley demonstrated a sweet disposition, kindness, and a love for animals.
But Ashley's home life was troubled, though she seldom talked about it. Yoknapatawpha County Sheriff's Department records show multiple domestic disturbance calls at the Mathers residence. Incident reports show the calls never originated from the Mathers home, and the apparent victim, Patty Mathers, never wanted to press charges, despite her visible minor injuries. When Ashley was 10, her father ran out on his wife and daughter for good.
Faculty and friends from Yoknapatawpha High School remember Ashley as athletic, energetic, and bubbly. She became a cheerleader, and in her senior year, was voted the most popular girl in class. Despite Ashley's popularity with her classmates, her mother watched her closely, telling neighbors she would see to it that Ashley was in a position to choose from the best and wealthiest bachelors in town.
During Ashley's sophomore year at the University of Mississippi, her mother died suddenly after a short battle with cancer, and Ashley's behavior changed. She concentrated much less on her studies and turned to partying and developing beneficial social connections instead.
Ashley was 21 when she met Philip Fontaine at a bluegrass concert, and they took to each other instantly. After a whirlwind courtship of six months, they married on Ashley's 22nd birthday. Sources close to the couple said Ashley seemed to look up to Philip, but she also made it clear that she was no fool. She appeared to know precisely how to get what she wanted from Philip.
From the start, Ashley worried about her stepson Grant, who was only 13 when she married Philip. Grant was already getting into trouble at home and at school, and Ashley's friends said she wanted to protect the boy and hoped to save him from the self-destructive path he was on.
Within two years of their marriage, Ashley and Philip were seen in public together less often, although the couple still entertained clients at their large home. By their seventh anniversary, it had become an open secret that Philip had a mistress. Local gossips suggested that Ashley had considered divorce, but ultimately rejected the idea and took a lover instead.