I love a good mystery. I like picking things apart to get a better understanding. I think it gives me a small sense of control of things. I really respect that you are confident enough to debate your beliefs and views. I too am very skeptical of things, especially things religious and paranormal. I never get a chance to discuss my views with anyone other than my husband. My family and friends are really religious and believe in all things paranormal. I used to until about 6 years ago when I moved out of my family's home and had other influences and could think on my own, LOL! Most times, I think people's beliefs, especially when younger, are those of their family's and community's. I still let my mom believe that I believe. Ignorance is bliss. I know it would kill her if she thought I was going to h*ll for being a non-believer! LOL! Anyways, it is nice to find a kindred spirit