
Erma Loraine Webb was born July 4, 1951 in a missionary hospital in
Africa to the Reverend Thomas and Mrs. Adelaide Webb. Erma's first 10
years were spent living and being schooled with the children of the
little African village that housed her father's mission.
In her 11th year, the family returned to the USA and a small town in
Kansas. Erma found she missed living in the African village where she'd
been treated with the respect and dignity befitting the child of the
Reverend. Erma was used to being a person of authority and expected her
orders to be recognized and obeyed. When she realized all people were
not going to bow to her wishes, instead of backing off, she became more
overbearing and obnoxious. In spite of her demanding ways, she loved
teaching and, when not in school, gathered all the younger neighborhood
children to “play” school. Not surprisingly she was always the teacher
-- never the student.
All during her high school and college years, Erma became accustomed
to being unpopular, but never thought to change her demanding way. She
was a loner so kept focused on her schoolwork to acquire her degree and
teaching credential. Upon graduation from college, she served in her
church missionary project teaching migrant workers in the South. In
1979, an opportunity opened to serve on Molokai, Hawaii teaching and
ministering to migrant workers and their families. In an un-Erma-like
impetuous moment, she applied and was accepted. The 29-year-old looked
forward with anticipation and excitement to her move to Hawaii the
following year.
Soon after her arrival on Molokai, Erma met one of the adult migrant
workers, Chun Aquino. The handsome, charming, young Filipino asked her
to help him improve his reading and writing skills. Erma was so
impressed by the young man's desire to better himself, she gladly
scheduled evening tutoring sessions. The learning sessions soon
stretched into long walks on the beach and watching the sunsets. Erma
was surprised to find herself hopelessly in love.
It was not long before Erma learned she was pregnant. She did not
tell Chun. She feared his reaction and that she might lose him. At the
end of the season on Molokai, Chun left the island and she never saw or
heard from him again. Erma was resigned to being alone to raise her
child. Any other alternative never entered her head.
The child, Scarlett, was born in Honolulu. Mother and child remained
in the islands. Erma resuming her teaching and went wherever she was
most needed.
Erma never swerved from what she saw as her real mission in life: to
see that her daughter had the chances she'd never had. She managed
everything about Scarlett's life and pageant career. Her way was always
the only way. She tolerated no deviance from what she dictated to
Scarlett. She told her daughter what to eat, and what to do -- as well
as when and why. Erma had said many times that she would do whatever it
took for Scarlett to win the Yoknapatawpha Literary Festival Beauty Pageant and
she expected the same of Scarlett.
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