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William "Bill" Lamar
was born on January 15, 1979 in Oxford, Mississippi to Quentin
and Allie
Lamar. The son of an influential Oxford family, Quentin had been
trained as a lawyer and built a successful legal practice. But
he eventually tired of the law and he and his wife founded Lamar
Cosmetics. Initially, Lamar Cosmetics grew rapidly and the Lamars
began refilling the family coffers, which had been depleted over
the years.
However, their growing wealth could not comfort the tormented
Quentin. He suffered from numerous psychological afflictions
and was prone to drinking and bouts of paranoia. Oxford residents
chalked it up as yet another idiosyncrasy of the town's old families.
But Allie fought with all her being to keep Quentin's difficulties
from hurting the burgeoning business.
When little Bill was born, many around town hoped the young
child would turn out to be a settling influence on Quentin. Instead,
the baby's crying seemed to torture Quentin, who took to locking
himself in the attic of the family home and wearing earplugs.
He told people around town that Bill was an emissary of the devil,
while they sadly shook their heads and clucked in pity. Although
a tragedy, no one around town was very surprised when Quentin
took his life with a twelve gauge shotgun at the family deer
camp.
Little Bill was left with no memories of his tormented father,
and Allie was determined that he not be exposed to that difficult
side of the family history. She worked hard to keep the business
succeeding and to continue the Lamar fortune.
Far from the devil's spawn Quentin claimed, Bill was actually
a good-natured, intelligent young boy. Every time he visited
his mother's office or walked around the square, older women
always cooed over the good looking young boy.
Bill was well liked in school and performed very well. While
not quite a straight A student, he was still near the top of
his class. He was particularly interested in foreign cultures
and, in elementary school, he dressed as a knight in armor from
England for show-and-tell.
As he progressed through junior high school and entered high
school, his love of foreign cultures turned into a great aptitude
for linguistics. He took both French and Spanish in high school
and was a National Merit Scholar in both disciplines. Although
athletic, Bill did not compete in any organized sports at Oxford
High School. After school was released, he went to his mother's
office to help run Lamar Cosmetics. He showed a tremendous innate
ability for business and everyone said he was a natural to take
over the family company.
His main distraction from languages and Lamar Cosmetics was
a beautiful young woman named Barbara Dubois. Bill met the young
beauty pageant star through his mother's cosmetics company and
its sponsorship of the contests. Bill and Barbara immediately
had an intense attraction and soon they were inseparable. Besides
the natural attraction between two very attractive young people,
Bill and Barbara shared an intense dislike of the pageant and
cosmetics scene. Although Barbara had loved the competitions
for many years, she was feeling the need for something different.
And even though Bill loved Oxford and was proud of his family's
cosmetics company, he felt drawn to Europe and the castles and
the poems and the vineyards and the moors. Bill and Barbara often
talked of running off to Paris or London and just disappearing.
However, in 1996, the young couple separated. Barbara moved
away to Atlanta for about a year, reportedly to study and hone
her competition skills . Shortly thereafter, Bill fulfilled his
dream of visiting Europe. He left Oxford and joined a program
where he could finish his schooling while traveling throughout
the continent.
For the brief period after Barbara's
departure and before Bill left for Europe, his friends said
his personality changed. They
said he seemed to be darker. Moody. Brooding. They thought it
was just in preparation for his Europe visit. Secretly, his friends
said he was just trying to recreate himself as a brooding existentialist
artist or something. They said he would be wearing a black turtleneck
and smoking clove cigarettes at a café overlooking the
Champs Elysées before the year was out. Some friends weren't
convinced that Bill's darkness was a young man's phase. They
saw him hiding a photo of Barbara and heard the pain in his voice
when the normally calm young man exploded in anger. For these
concerned friends, it was hoped that Europe would be a welcome
relief for Bill.
And it seemed to be just the type of respite he needed. Bill
completed his education in Europe and stayed there for seven
years. He traveled throughout the continent, living primarily
in Paris or London or Frankfurt for a few months at a time. He
finished college in Europe, eventually obtaining an MBA from
the prestigious CMSD in Valais, Switzerland.
After receiving his MBA, he took over the failing, Paris-based
Perfume and Fragrances division of Lamar Cosmetics and within
a year turned the division
from corporate deadwood to highly profitable. Business associates characterized
Bill as a straight-shooter with sad eyes. They said his leadership seemed to
spring naturally from his good nature and his willingness to take risks, bend
the rules, and go against corporate directives when it made sense. "Follow
your heart and the money will follow," Bill would say time and again.
At the same time, they said he had no close friends, had only a few superficial
relationships with women, and could sometimes, late in the evening, be seen
staring into the dark at something remembered, treasured, and lost.
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