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Billie Jo Baretta Jones was born October 11, 1996, to an unwed
mother who had arranged for the baby's adoption before the birth so
that the child could immediately go to a family. Billie Jo was
adopted by Mary and Elliott Jones, who had applied for adoption of a
newborn about 18 months earlier and had completed all the necessary
investigations and requirements for adoption. They had
chosen to go through an adoption attorney rather than an agency.
The baby immediately captivated Mary and Elliott. Neither could
get enough of watching her, cuddling her and nurturing her from the
moment she entered their lives. It was an effort for them not to
spoil her when she began exerting her will and independence, but
they were conscientious parents and knew that discipline and
structure were necessary to the development of a well-balanced
child. Mary had taken maternity leave from work and hoped she could
remain a stay-at-home mom, but needed to return to work a few
months after Billie Jo's arrival.
Billie Jo thrived on the care of her loving parents and her babysitters, Aunties Julie and Eleanor. Like most youngsters, she was
curious and adventurous as well as willful and independent. She
loved exploring -- especially where she knew she wasn't supposed to go
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and wasn't fearful of going out on her own almost as soon as she
began walking. In fact, her parents often laughingly related that
Billie Jo never walked, but was running as soon as she learned to
stand and put one foot in front of the other. Her parents loved her
courage and independence However, more than once Billie Jo found
herself on the receiving end of a "time out," a scolding, or in the
corner for going off on her own in pursuit of what she wanted. Mary
complained to friends that, once the child got an idea in her head,
she was going to have what she wanted to have, regardless of danger,
common sense, or any discipline Mary and Elliot could bring to bear.
Elliott was a good father and loved spending time with his
little girl: reading to her and helping her learn new skills like
roller skating and riding her tricycle and later a two-wheeler. She
ran gleefully to her Daddy as soon as he came home from work. Mary
loved seeing them together and took lots of pictures.
As soon as they felt Billie Jo would understand, Mary and Elliott
told Billie Jo she was adopted and how special she was to them.
Billie Jo accepted her life as a happy, normal one. She felt sorry
for her friends whose natural parents sometimes treated them as a
nuisance instead of special as her parents treated her.
Billie Jo knew Barbara Dubois all of her life since Mary made
many of Barbara's pageant clothes and the fittings took place at
Mary's home. Billie Jo thought Barbara the most beautiful person she
had ever seen. It didn't take long for her to try to be like her
idol and copy Barbara's mannerisms and talents. Barbara generously
shared her limited free time with Billie Jo, taught her tap and
jazz, and answered endless questions about the life of a beauty
queen. Barbara didn't glorify the pageant life, and even subtly
tried to discourage Billie Jo, but the child insisted she wanted to
be a beauty queen just like her "Auntie Barbara." Upon Barbara's
recommendation, Mary and Elliott told Billie Jo she must wait until she
turned 10 before she could enter any pageants. Billie Jo could hardly wait and often told strangers who
asked her age that she was 9 or 10. She didn't thinking of it as
lying, but just her trick on people.
At the time of the Yoknapatawpha County Literature Festival
Beauty Pageant, Billie Jo was still trying to recover from the death
of her beloved Daddy in Iraq when she was shocked and horrified by
the terrible thing that happened to her beloved Auntie Barbara.
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